Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Where do we go from here?

We are now in the stage of "where do we go from here?". I am not sure I can definitively answer that question, but we do have a few things planned that are helping us look to the future instead of dwell on the past. That doesn't mean we will ever forget what happened or the baby that we lost, just that we need to move forward and go on with our lives.

So what do we have to look forward to in the coming months?

Attending the Penn State vs. Indiana game at Fed Ex Field. We didn't attend Penn State, but I have a few friends that did and I went to a bunch of games back when I was in college. We are going with one of my friends that we haven't seen since our wedding! It will definitely be a fun time.

Hosting our parents for Thanksgiving in DC. This whole experience has really opened my eyes to the importance of family. I really miss my parents and can't wait to see them in a couple of weeks. We are lucky that our parents get along with each other pretty well despite their differences. We have spent two previous Thanksgivings together, and we always have a nice time.

Seeing Elf on Broadway at Christmas time. AJ surprised me with tickets the other night. I cried (tears of joy). Elf is my favorite Christmas movie of all time and I have wanted to see the show since the day I heard it was coming to Broadway. We are just going up for one night, but it will be a great holiday getaway.

Renting a house for a ski weekend with friends. My work friends and I just booked an awesome house in Western Maryland for a ski vacation over MLK weekend. And it is an amazing deal to boot! The house has a hot tub and a pool table and is only a few minutes away from the ski resort. It should be an epic weekend.

Vacationing in Grand Cayman with my parents. Instead of getting us a bunch of stuff we don't need for Christmas, my parents are paying for us to go with them to Grand Cayman over President's Day weekend. We haven't been on a "real" vacation since our honeymoon, so this will be a perfect escape before a stressful spring and summer (what with buying a house, moving, the bar, and all).

So where do we go from here? Apparently we go on a lot of trips and spend a lot of time with family and friends. But seriously though, being around those that love, support, and distract you really does help. And being in fun places doesn't hurt either. We will also be spending a lot of time enjoying our last few months in DC. After all of that maybe we will be ready to start trying for another baby. Until then, we are just a normal couple soaking up all the fun that we can!


  1. I'm glad you have fun things planned! Not that it can take away the pain, but it will help you move forward, I'm sure. Still thinking of you, xoxo

  2. This actually sounds similar in idea to the next several months of my "hey, I'm single, why not!?" plans. Traveling, friends, experiences. Sure, I'd rather have someone to come home to, but at the moment it's just me, so why not?

    I love that you two are taking this time to refocus on what is important--family, friends, each other--sending more virtual hugs your way.


  3. I am so sorry to hear about your loss, we have been through the same thing, and we understand exactly that you don't forget, but I am so glad you have so many wonderful things coming up and spending great times with family and friends! Sending hugs too! :)

  4. I am heading to the Grand Cayman Ritz in December! Yay!

  5. This seems like all good things! I am so glad you are keeping busy and doing some fun stuff, and also taking time to yourself to relax and try to recuperate - in every sense of the word. Love you sweets!